Still waiting for equality:
The election of Barack Obama was a great victory for civil rights in
the United States. But amid the celebration, were reminders that all
citizens are not yet equal under American law.
Some of the very
same voters who wept with pride as they chose their country's first
black president also voted against equal rights for gay people. There
was California's Proposition 8, which will ban same-sex marriage.
Arizona and Florida passed similar bans. Arkansas will prohibit
unmarried couples (read: gay couples) from adopting or fostering
children. This, in a state that desperately needs foster parents.
In
Canada as in the United States, there are many people who feel that
only heterosexual people should marry. They have the freedom to hold
that belief and express it, and to practise as they choose in their
houses of worship. But the civil institution of marriage is not a
matter of faith or even morality. When governments pass laws, they must
apply to all citizens, black or white, gay or straight.
Change can be unsettling. When Canada was in the midst of changing
its laws to allow same-sex marriage, families argued bitterly around
dinner tables. Yet here we are, just a few years later, and it's no
longer a topic of conversation. It wasn't an issue in the federal
election last month. Indeed, it seems strange now to remember a time
when gay couples couldn't take vows and start families.
The
fabric of Canadian society has not unravelled. Families didn't start
breaking apart after the law governing families became more inclusive.
If uncertain voters in the United States look to Canada, one of the
first countries in the world to legalize same-sex marriage, they'll see
there's nothing to fear.
Do you agree that there is nothing to fear? Were you surprised with the results of the vote? Oh, and can at least one person explain to me why gay people should not have equal rights? Wait, let me rephrase that: can at least one person offer an intelligent or compassionate reason why gay people should not enjoy the same rights that everyone else enjoys?